First kisses, My Ex Assistant, Dating Drama, & More! (Juicy Q&A)

7 Apr 2020
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I'm Molly, a typical sushi, makeup, and fashion loving millennial girl who just so happens to be blind! I was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa at just 4 years old and began public speaking at age 5. I started just doing motivational speaking, but now I make videos and even model! Even though I can’t see, I know that there are bright spots in everything we face. Let’s find them together. 💕

  • Drinking yourself blind is related to drinking the wrong type of alcohol, ethanol.

    Scott McMahanScott McMahanVor 21 Tag
  • If it's a first kiss then I would like to be asked, after that don't want to be asked. I think you would be a good match with the muppet "Animal". lol He has always been my very favorite muppet.

    Shellie AShellie AVor 21 Tag
  • As far as asking a girl if you can kiss her. Blind or not I personally see that as being respectful and not pushing boundaries into uncomfortable territory. It's just saying hey are you okay with this are we at a point where you're comfortable enough in the relationship that me kissing you is not going to be awkward. That being said I have had to learn to reign myself in. Like you I'm not a handshaker I'm a hugger, but apparently in today's society that is no longer appropriate anymore so I've had to learn other ways of let's call it communicating happiness, congratulations or comfort. As far as the chalkboard thing I don't know anyone especially myself who likes the texture of a chalkboard. Just thinking of that texture gives me the heebie jeebies .

    Jim VrchotaJim VrchotaVor 26 Tage
  • It would totally have to be animal.

    SmegSmegVor Monat
  • elmo is a CHILD

    Claire BeneventoClaire BeneventoVor 2 Monate
  • hand shaking is a nightmare when you're sighted too 😭

    Kayla JoyceKayla JoyceVor 2 Monate
  • I definitely feel like being asked to be kissed is so awkward...

    Trisha McDonaldTrisha McDonaldVor 3 Monate
  • Okay, I definitely want to be asked instead of being kissed when the guy THINKS he can.

    Aleksandra NAleksandra NVor 4 Monate
  • I ABSOLUTELY hate it when a boy asks to kiss me. I`m a lesbian.

    Ola AdamOla AdamVor 4 Monate
  • I think if someone would ask to kiss me, I’d see it as respectful to me. And Molly, I would think that asking to kiss you would be something that people do because you’re blind, cuz maybe you can’t see their face coming closer. This is just from a sighties’ perspective, and I don’t mean anything offensive by it

    Elise I. C.Elise I. C.Vor 4 Monate
  • 10:20 never heard her talk about that before 😮

    Delilah MendozaDelilah MendozaVor 4 Monate
  • Bee her guide sould be a 🐝

    Gaming With SamanthaGaming With SamanthaVor 4 Monate
  • Elmo

    GypsieNova825GypsieNova825Vor 4 Monate
  • I like both asking and not asking depending on the situation. I would think that you as a blind person would not like the spontaneously. What if it's someone you don't feel vibes with?

    GypsieNova825GypsieNova825Vor 4 Monate
  • I have never been kissed,(I'm 16) so for the first time, if I'm on a date that I wanted to go on I would want him to go for it

    Kenna ScottKenna ScottVor 5 Monate
  • Consent is important.

    Caitie FCaitie FVor 5 Monate
  • I do not like being asked if someone can kiss me. You should be able to sense wheter or not it's a good idea, in my opinion. If someone would ask and you would be like 'heck no' everything after that is just awkward. If you have doubts, just don't do it..

    DeniseDeniseVor 5 Monate
  • My grandmother quite literally drank herself blind. She was an alcoholic and ten years ago she went blind and her doctors attributed it to alcohol abuse

    Ashley N HarofAshley N HarofVor 5 Monate
  • Molly: Drinking yourself blind? What is that? Never heard that before Niamh, an Irish woman: Well, you know what! We love you, Momma Bee

    raindropknowledgeraindropknowledgeVor 5 Monate
  • I don't think you'll find many that won't ask for a kiss these days, men are afraid of being accused of harassment so they have to make sure their approaches are wanted.

    Kerry HKerry HVor 5 Monate
  • I get where you‘re coming from with the "can I kiss you" 😂 When I’m consenting I don’t want to hear that question, then I’m like "just go for it!". But if I’m not consenting (and I don’t necessarily mean sexual assault, sometimes people just want to kiss you when you’re not into them), I’d definitely appreciate a question beforehand. I had way too many scenarios where the guy simply tried to kiss me and I dodged. MULTIPLE TIMES.

    Ana CalyAna CalyVor 5 Monate
  • question: which muppet would you date? molly and her mom: starts naming the sesame street characters

    Ava NomuraAva NomuraVor 6 Monate
    • I mean I think technically the sesame street characters are muppets. (Like the kind of puppet) I could be wrong though.

      Miss MusicMiss MusicVor 19 Tage
    • THIS! I laughed so hard. She even mentions loving the Muppet Movie - with the real muppets! 😂

      Jocelyn KeeneJocelyn KeeneVor 5 Monate
  • 6:01 im 100% like you

    Ava NomuraAva NomuraVor 6 Monate
  • I’d rather not touch newspaper or chalkboards either.

    Jo W.Jo W.Vor 6 Monate
  • I hear all these stories of people being kissed and it’s so depressing because I’ve never been kissed 😂 😭 😭

    e he hVor 6 Monate
  • Yes! Love when people asks if they can kiss me before doing it, for the first time especially! But it's not necessary for me.. but I really appreciate it!

    HannahHannahVor 6 Monate
  • I would love to take you on a date & get to know you more, loving your personality & videos!

    Christopher BowerChristopher BowerVor 6 Monate
  • Drinking yourself blind is actually real through ethanol poisoning

    Marvene MartinezMarvene MartinezVor 6 Monate
  • I’m all about it if you’re feeling it and you wanna kiss someone, just go for it

    Matthew HarrisonMatthew HarrisonVor 6 Monate
  • I mean, asking for a kiss tends to ruin the moment, but asking for consent about any physical romantic contact is protective for both parties so I prefer it.

    Valeria MintonValeria MintonVor 6 Monate
  • Oh my soul I literally feel the exact same! Don’t ask to kiss me just freaking do it! Instant turn off nope, sorry, next... 😂😂🙈

    tiffany woodmantiffany woodmanVor 7 Monate
  • Personally I don’t like being asked because I’d giggle and kill the mood

    Sarah P.Sarah P.Vor 7 Monate
  • When she talked about her not noticing people holding out their hands for hand shaking I thought about Doctor Mike trying to give her a high-five in their video playing operation. Who else thought about that? 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    Lydia GabrielsonLydia GabrielsonVor 7 Monate
  • Isn't a guy not asking before the first kiss pretty much sexual assault, because they dont have concent?

    sgradonesgradoneVor 7 Monate
  • Honestly I really like the idea of a girl asking if she can kiss me- like it normalizes consent and the worst that can happen is I say no and we move on (which is awkward like likeee it would have been awkward anyway if I didn't want the kiss) but that's just me

    Savannah RaySavannah RayVor 7 Monate
  • Drinking yourself blind is from when they tried to make Moonshine and accidentally made the wrong type of alcohol (ethanol I think...?) and drinking that can make you go blind. Apparently there's also a form of alcohol that gives temporary blindness (but I don't remember that name).

    Mr Pirate DancerMr Pirate DancerVor 7 Monate
  • maybe it's ok to ask someone who is blind if you can kiss her if it's the first time because she will not see it coming and it might get awkward

    pixelpixelVor 7 Monate
  • Nooo

    Regina MertensRegina MertensVor 7 Monate
    • Mmmmmmmoooooollllliiiii

      Regina MertensRegina MertensVor 7 Monate
  • Oh my goshhhh yessss that is so cringey when someone asks if they can kiss you. If there was a moment going, it just ruins it. If youre not sure and have to ask..... just go with ' no'

    mimo _mimo _Vor 7 Monate
  • Molly's relationship with her mum, reminds me a bit of my relationship with mine. She knows everything about me, even one embarrassing story about me falling out of the bed during a threesome. Also, when it comes to kissing, it's usually me who asks, because I usually just kiss people while I'm drunk, and want to make sure I don't misjudge the situation. I would rather make it awkward asking, than make it awkward, and maybe even them feeling like they've been somewhat violated them, by kissing someone who doesn't want to be kissed. I do the same with drunken hugs. It should also mention I usually drink with either my mum and her friends, or "nerds".

    Oliver Aurora SandaneOliver Aurora SandaneVor 7 Monate
  • You sing like a goddess like really

    Janina CruzJanina CruzVor 7 Monate
  • Hi molly you are very gorgeous and your dog is gorgeous and your family’s is gorgeous and my name is Romy Donner

    Romy DonnerRomy DonnerVor 7 Monate
  • You are the only one that I have heard other than me and my mother that calls shakes hibbygibbys

    Chloe WimbishChloe WimbishVor 7 Monate
  • I need someone to ask to kiss me, I can't just let it happen I need to be mentally prepared, I'm surprise you feel different cuz you can't see them approach you with the smoochy face?

    Bronwyn EdwardsBronwyn EdwardsVor 7 Monate
  • Can you do another one of these? This was really cute and fun.

    LyraFreedomTVLyraFreedomTVVor 7 Monate
  • Omg i just imagined a guide-squirrel xD that would be the worst guide animal ever!

    CeCe JacksonCeCe JacksonVor 7 Monate
  • I think consent is good so it doesn't necessarily have to be asking but you should be aware of the other person and if they push you off, don't seem into it, say no, anything like that just stop. Cos consent is a big issue so I'd rather that they ask and have it be a little awkward than force themselves on me.

    Kate OlivierKate OlivierVor 7 Monate
  • I hateeee being asked to be kissed im with you molly!!! If the moments right the moments right.

    ashley 9089ashley 9089Vor 7 Monate
  • Ladies a good rule is, even if you’re sighted, if you put your drink down and it is unattended for even a second, just forget it. The few dollars is not worth it. Be careful and stay safe.

    KassandraKassandraVor 7 Monate
  • Scooter

    Speedee the SlothSpeedee the SlothVor 7 Monate
  • Yesssss. Molly is a Pineapple on pizza person 🍕❤️❤️❤️❤️

    Karen WaltersKaren WaltersVor 7 Monate
  • I don’t know I am just 11

    PeachiosPeachiosVor 7 Monate
  • Thats cool you have went to a school for the blind wherever you live.I attend the Oklahoma school for the blind because thats where I’m from.

    Joseph RodriguezJoseph RodriguezVor 7 Monate

    Lizzy AtkinsonLizzy AtkinsonVor 8 Monate
  • I think it’s so respectful for a guy to ask. But not in an awkward formal way.

    Balqees ABalqees AVor 8 Monate
  • I think it's cute when someone asks "Can I kiss you ?". (I would prefer "May I kiss you" though, because I'm a bit of a snob when it comes to language.) If said the right way, it can even be a turn on.

    Coco21212Coco21212Vor 8 Monate
  • Ooh! I hate chalkboards! Blehhh. Especially the sound it makes and how it makes your hands all weird.

    Emily FogertyEmily FogertyVor 8 Monate
  • when you said you don't like when the guys asks if they can kiss you and that you don't like it I remembered your Fish Kisser story and giggled. Personally i feel that i also don't like when guys ask if they can kiss me. Just be a man and go for it. (unless I don't feel attracted to him, then no, stay away from me, I am just being nice and polite, but maybe I should be more straight forward and say: i don't like you, or I don't feel attracted to you, cause sometimes they don't get it. But I am afraid of hurting their feelings ).

    MiglakiMiglakiVor 8 Monate
  • Half of the time I forget your blind you act so normal

    Jenna ShepardsonJenna ShepardsonVor 8 Monate
  • i LOVE when guys ask before kissing me. its very nice and respectful. respect and consent ?? sexy.

    faith christinafaith christinaVor 8 Monate
  • My boyfriend of almost two years kissed me on the cheek after our first date. I was born and raised in the southern US, where kissing on the cheek is a super common greeting and goodbye, so it didn't seem inappropriate, or even necessarily a romantic gesture. It could have just been a standard goodbye, as far as I could tell. However, he's originally from the Midwest, where kissing on the cheek as a friendly greeting apparently isn't as much of a thing, so he was worried he had been too forward. He texted me the next morning to say he had a great time and that he hoped it was okay he kissed me. I thought it was SO cute! I think since I hadn't dated much before, I would have been okay with being asked if he could kiss me. I was very shy, awkward, and terrible at reading signals, so I would have appreciated that type of clear signal that he liked me and wanted to kiss me. I need to pretty much be hit over the head with bluntness to know someone is into me. On our second date, I totally misread his vibe. I was mistaking nervousness/shyness for disinterest until the very last second. I was about to hug him goodbye, thinking I probably wouldn't see him again (and feeling pretty sad about it because at this point the nerves had faded and I was very clearheaded about the fact that I liked him a lot) and he paused for a second and then planted one on me. The rest is history! He's the best; sweet as can be, patient, smart, funny, charmed the heck out of my family and friends with his earnest sweetness, great with my nephew and niece, and completely unfazed by my severe disability and wheelchair (he learned how to take my wheelchair apart and put it back together by the second date. Another reason I figured out he was a keeper once my nervousness faded).

    AdorkableArtist92AdorkableArtist92Vor 8 Monate
  • Wait Sesame Street and the muppets aren't synonymous right?

    Serena McSerena McVor 8 Monate
  • Sesame street characters are not Muppets molly LOL

    Courtney JCourtney JVor 8 Monate
  • Oh molly, the innocent way you misunderstood the human centipede question was too good.

    Courtney JCourtney JVor 8 Monate
  • Swedish Chef or Pepe The king Prawn would be quite interesting.🕷️🦷🖤🤍

    Emily NoirEmily NoirVor 8 Monate
  • Yeah I’m with you on don’t ask... but don’t just go for it if it isn’t obviously the time? Hahaha.. no wonder we women are labeled as confusing 🙄

    Sistertooth TVSistertooth TVVor 8 Monate
  • 30 year old woman here and I find it soooo sexy when I’m asked before the first kiss. I think it’s that he respects me enough to ask and that is soo sweet to me and I immediately want to kiss him.

    Richelle MarveRichelle MarveVor 8 Monate
  • See.... thats the problem with women , they dont want you to ask them to kiss but then they sue you for ME TOO..... Just ask Joe Biden

    Mark PriusMark PriusVor 8 Monate
  • I agree with you Molly, i hate when a guy asks if he can kiss me, love your videos though

    Jaimee YoungJaimee YoungVor 8 Monate
  • If someone kisses me without asking I won't be mad (obviously) but if someone asks me I will appreciate it , but if we are in an intimate moment DONT ASK TO KISS ME !!

    PlutoPlutoVor 8 Monate
  • Can you please do another singing video??

    Julia LozanoJulia LozanoVor 8 Monate
  • molly, i support you through everything and you are an amazing and inspiring human being, but pineapple does not belong on pizza, how dare you even suggest that pineapple belongs anywhere near pizza.

    HunterHunterVor 8 Monate
  • I have a question for you: Can you feel it when your eyes shake? Thank you so much and I love your videos!

    NinaNinaVor 8 Monate
  • The face molly made when she said “oooo pizza” made me laugh so much

    Rachel ModhaRachel ModhaVor 8 Monate
  • I feel like it would be cute if a guy asked to kiss me. Plus there's more restriction and not so much pressure. But it's never happened to me. Yes I have had my first kiss tho. That was interesting

    Emma EichbauerEmma EichbauerVor 8 Monate
  • Pineapple on pizza is up there with socks & sandles. Hawaiian pizza was created by Canadians

    Honest BurglerHonest BurglerVor 8 Monate
  • That is my ideal pizza (sans peppers 🌶)

    Ann ChenAnn ChenVor 8 Monate
  • I guess a question I would have would be if she is fully blind, partially blind, or what is the level of blindness? And it’s not to be rude it’s just curious to understand. I know some people could see some lights, some see fuzzy objects, some have limited blindness, and others see nothing at all. And I’ve been curious. I apologize for my ignorance, but hope to learn! Thanks 👍

    Leandro CLeandro CVor 8 Monate
  • Im straight eve! 😂😂

    redheaded bossredheaded bossVor 8 Monate
  • i dont really know about the kiss honestly because i have ever dated once in my entire 22 years of living like my ex asked but when he didnt, i wish he asked but when he did, i wish he didnt. lol the timing was very off but most of the time i dont really wanna kiss him HAHHHAAHAHHAHA

    Nicole ViolettitoNicole ViolettitoVor 8 Monate
  • Molly’s description of a pizza is literally everything I hate 😂🤢

    Wookiee CookieWookiee CookieVor 8 Monate
  • I agree with Elmo!

    ccubed215ccubed215Vor 8 Monate
  • As an asexual person; definitely would like it if someone asked me first.

    ちゃんTsukiko 月子ちゃんTsukiko 月子Vor 8 Monate
  • If I were to kiss a blind person I'd ask just because they can't see me moving in but I guess you could feel the vibe and I wouldn't want to kiss them and suprise them and make them uncomfortable.

    Savannah HollemanSavannah HollemanVor 8 Monate
  • About the kissing thing I have never had that happen. However I feel it would be awkward for someone to ask if they can kiss me and I didn't want them to.

    Awesome PantsAwesome PantsVor 8 Monate
  • well molly as a guy it totally creeps me out when guys ask if its ok to kiss me. 26 year old Molly is gorgeous.

    GeekstronautGeekstronautVor 9 Monate
  • It’s sort of a consent thing, isn’t it?

    Christopher SingerChristopher SingerVor 9 Monate
  • Drinking yourself blind refers to the old times when European poor people drank bad distilled booze that literally made people blind.

    Pietro Cozzi TininPietro Cozzi TininVor 9 Monate
  • Yours mom scared meeee, I even look side way since the voice came out of no where omg😂😂😱

    Backyard growBackyard growVor 9 Monate
  • I personally find it really nice when a guy asks "can I kiss you" because asking for consent is GREAT! Buuuuuut, that said, I do find it hotter/sexier when they just kiss you (in the right moment, of course). Edit: I'd honestly rather a guy ask me than have them kiss me when I don't want it. I personally find them asking me hot too, but it's hotter if you don't know it's coming (but still want it) Basically, asking is hot so, do it just in case

    Phoebe RogersPhoebe RogersVor 9 Monate
  • I prefer he ask (especially if I were blind). What if the kiss is unwelcomed? He may like you and you don't like him. Wouldn't you slap him if he kissed you without asking? He would then (in his defense) say he saw this video where you said you prefer he not ask you first.

    nyreekrikoriannyreekrikorianVor 9 Monate
  • omg you just described my favorite pizza toppings xD

    Kaisa _Kaisa _Vor 9 Monate
  • I kinda like it if they ask if they can kiss me because it shows ( to me ) that they care and I can trust them but I don’t really answer I just kiss them

    Bertha SeymourBertha SeymourVor 9 Monate
  • Molly, referring to your fear of being drugged at a bar. I always hold my drink from the top with my hand over it, which covers the drink. This isn’t out of fear of being drugged, it is just a habit. But would be helpful for someone who has a fear of being slipped something. 🧡

    Darling VintageDarling VintageVor 9 Monate
  • I find it very nice when a guy asks if he can kiss me. In my opinion it shows that they respect you.

    Hi XyHi XyVor 9 Monate
  • You should definitely date The Swedish Chef!

    Kim LeeKim LeeVor 9 Monate
  • Can we talk about how beautiful molly is???!!!

    Scott ClarkScott ClarkVor 9 Monate
  • Lol it's funny when her mom cuts her off because my mom does that to me ALLLL the time... even cuts in front of me when walking lol. 😐

    24aquablue24aquablueVor 9 Monate
  • Oh dear God this poor girl has never heard of human centipede 😂 akward

    Brittany Ann BennisBrittany Ann BennisVor 9 Monate
  • I agree in the sense that guys asking if they can kiss you is cringy and ruins the moment but in this me too era, there's a huge focus on consent and guys are afraid. It adds another layer to it with you being blind too. A guy could potentially misjudge the vibe and kiss you when you don't even know it's coming and you might feel assaulted, as far as the guy is concerned at least.

    Brittany Ann BennisBrittany Ann BennisVor 9 Monate