Being honest about what’s happening in my life…

31 Dez 2020
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I've been keeping a lot from you all over the past few months, so I thought it was finally time to open up about what's going on with my mental health, my move, my relationship, and more. I know that in so many ways, I am so privileged and fortunate, but I wanted to be honest about how I've been feeling. Sending you all so much love if you're going through a hard time, as well!
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I'm Molly, a typical sushi, makeup, and fashion loving millennial girl who just so happens to be blind! I was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa at just 4 years old and began public speaking at age 5. I started just doing motivational speaking, but now I make videos and even model! Even though I can’t see, I know that there are bright spots in everything we face. Let’s find them together. 💕

KOMMENTARE
  • This video is incredibly vulnerable and something I've been terrified to post. Remember to be kind to yourself and others during these challenging times. Live with empathy and support those around you. Don't give up hope that we will get through this, because we will and we will be stronger because of it.

    Molly BurkeMolly BurkeVor 27 Tage
    • Oh Molly, my heart hurts for you, lady. You are in my prayers hun. Hugs.

      Karmen LetourneauKarmen LetourneauVor 11 Tage
    • You are truly an inspiration to me Molly and your videos about mental health have helped me improve mine. You are truly a wonderful person❤🙂. Sending you lots of support and happiness and hope for the new year (2021)❤❤.

      chloe & co.chloe & co.Vor 11 Tage
    • Thank you for being genuine with us. We love ❤️ you. Sending good vibes abs prayers your way. You will get through this!!!!!!!

      Patricia StoddardPatricia StoddardVor 13 Tage
    • Dont wary you wont see the haters

      jeffjeffVor 19 Tage
    • @mollyburke I hope you know that all you audience knows that it's okay to not be okay. Showing how vulnerable you can be with millions of people makes you more down to earth. I hope you see Footless Jos video message to you because you are both so awesome and real

      jazzygurl24jazzygurl24Vor 20 Tage
  • I can’t even put my finger on exactly why but your videos always bring me a lot of peace and comfort. Thank you for sharing your energy (even when your upset and sad it’s still good energy) with us. I know it must be exhausting at times to do that. I guess I just want to say thank you. It’s certainly is making the world a better place.

    Kira GarciaKira GarciaVor 2 Tage
  • Girl! If i was there with you I would give you the biggest hug! You are not a burden to us. We are here for you and we're here with you.

    Rachel RiddleRachel RiddleVor 4 Tage
  • THANK YOU FOR THIS , I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH AWEFUL DEPRESSION AND I KNOW HOW IT IS ! LOVE YOU GIRL !

    NATURAL NINA VLOGSNATURAL NINA VLOGSVor 4 Tage
  • Thank you for making this

    A MmA MmVor 4 Tage
  • Happy or sad, youŕe a gem.

    wouterwasherewouterwashereVor 6 Tage
  • I'm so proud of you!

    Whats-My-FandomWhats-My-FandomVor 7 Tage
  • It been hard for me because My Mom and her boyfriend broke up PS. I’m 10

    CourtneyCourtneyVor 7 Tage
  • Thumbs up if you've been crying every day. Whether it's the little things or the big things. It's good to know that Im not the only one going through this. Its good to know that were not alone

    TheRealVRoseGTheRealVRoseGVor 7 Tage
  • Molly. I very proud of you for opening up, I understand that this is a hard time for other disabled people, feel better, and we will continue to support you through this.

    Gabrielle TranGabrielle TranVor 8 Tage
  • I am so sad you feel you have to explain that you are grateful and know it could be worse. Other people's struggles don't make your less valid. I am glad you finally decided to open up. Please release yourself of the guilt to see a silver lining. Toxic positivity is so pervasive in our society and it is not a burden you need to hold or carry. Thank you for being brave enough to share your most authentic self.

    Heidi RauschHeidi RauschVor 8 Tage
  • There were so many things u said that I completely relate to and if for some reason u end up reading this always remember remember you can take it day by day and when my mental state is in a bad bad place I took it hour by hour. Taking it hour by hour has helped me and remember your never a burden we love u all the way from this DEhave feed🧚🏽‍♀️

    evelyn perezevelyn perezVor 8 Tage
  • Honestly, I cry ALL THE TIME. I lost my best friend while I was on my first vacation on Halloween. My FAVORITE holiday. Jewels was my everything. She got me through EVERYTHING. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. At least we have each other ❤️

    Jerry CruzJerry CruzVor 8 Tage
  • I love you channel

    Carl StewardCarl StewardVor 9 Tage
  • You aren’t burdening us whatsoever. Your pain is just as valid as anyone else’s. Like you said in the video all pain is valid. It’s been a difficult year so it’s understandable that you have been struggling. Even before 2020 I always struggled with mental illness so I get that it’s not easy to live with that. But you don’t have to pretend to be happy, it’s ok to let your guard down and show how you truly feel. You are valid, and we love and support you very much ❤️.

    • Sweet_Cosmic_Sage •• Sweet_Cosmic_Sage •Vor 9 Tage
  • “When your heart is broken..it let’s the light in”, Molly you are so strong, stronger than you think. Don’t ever feel like you can’t take time for yourself, it’s ok to take that time for you. You are so brave for making and posting this video, I’m sure it will help many.... you’re not alone. 🤍

    Melissa F. M.Melissa F. M.Vor 9 Tage
  • I hope you know that as a person you convey strength and courage by showing your vulnerability. And, that you aren't responsible for anyone's decision to keeping moving forward even if it feels like crawling at times. I have great respect for willingness to try even when things are very dark. Keep trucking lady, you are a great contribution to the human story.

    mardi bentonmardi bentonVor 9 Tage
  • there can't seriously be people who watch this and think that she doesn't have the right to be hurt - everybody has the right to feel hurt

    Cecy BellardCecy BellardVor 10 Tage
  • Molly, you are so strong. You are not a burden. You are a voice of truth, but it is the hope you have DESPITE your struggles that inspires people. But even being a creator, you're still entitled to your pricacy and you don't ha e to feel guilty over not sharing all the hard stuff. YOU ARE NOT A BURDEN. You tackle issues others don't wanna talk about. You get vulnerable, and that's okay. Like you said, when watching another youtuber cry made you feel that you're not alone - watching you not giving up even in times of hardship makes us feel less alone ❤ As someone who's been struggling with anxiety and depression for years, I am proud of you for getting through this year, and I wish you all the best for 2021. We're all in this together 🙌💖🐝 Lots of love from Poland, Alex

    Alex TheBadassBadgerAlex TheBadassBadgerVor 10 Tage
  • I have my own pain and then when say my best friend says shes going through something I feel bad for her so I just became a mess.

    Oasis MarieOasis MarieVor 10 Tage
  • Please extend the grace you give others to yourself ❤️

    Adrienne ColantonioAdrienne ColantonioVor 10 Tage
  • Please NEVER feel guilt towards your feelings Feelings are valid no matter your situation...

    Yosra HamzaYosra HamzaVor 10 Tage
  • Being honest and sharing struggles helps so much more, i stopped watching you for a while maybe i needed your genuine honest self Please always share your struggles so we all feel we are not alone

    Yosra HamzaYosra HamzaVor 10 Tage
  • Does anyone know why she couldn’t just live with her boyfriend?

    Daniela CDaniela CVor 11 Tage
  • You sound like I did, feeling guilty about getting my anxiety disorder. I knew people were dying or having it worse than me so i felt guilty. There was this moment where I kinda wished there was something really bad going on with me because "just" having an anxiety disorder didn't seem like "enough". But know that it's ok, feeling guilty is also ok.. But that doesn't mean your problems are less valid. I've been told all my life when i was feeling bad that people were having it worse, and yes that's good to educate kids about but I think that when I was going through some stuff and didn't feel like eating people told me that others had it worse (starving). Yes that's bad but I ended up feeling guilty for feeling bad. I think was you're doing is good, I think this video is good. Yes if you're watching this and you've lost your job or your having troubles than yes you have it worse than people who have a job, but that doesn't mean that their life is perfect right now or ever. I just hope that people can see the light at the end of the tunnel or at least imagine it. :)

    SamTheMarsSamTheMarsVor 11 Tage
  • "See you as a pillar of hope"?? lmao Damn, could you be any more narcissist? If you have to list your "accomplishments" at the start of a video...girl please. Could you be anymore self absorbed? You are 3 degrees of twisted and love to play the victim of life. Poor Molly the little blind girl she's such an inspiration. You will never know how good you have it.

    WondermonkeyWondermonkeyVor 11 Tage
    • I’m sorry to hear you’re struggling

      Jelleybean18Jelleybean18Vor 6 Tage
  • It's so sad to see her apologize so much for the way she is feeling..... yours' (and everyone's) feelings are valid!

    Gisele PoitrasGisele PoitrasVor 12 Tage
  • Sending only good vibes your way Molly! Thank you for being vulnerable with us and being honest. We love you and we want to see you nothing but happy. Cheers to new beginnings :)

    Diana DominguezDiana DominguezVor 12 Tage
  • I can’t believe you call LA your home and actually want to go back it’s an absolute shit hole you couldn’t pay me to live there

    AmandaAmandaVor 12 Tage
  • Knowing that other people are struggling too is incredibly helpful. It doesn’t take away my struggle but it helps me know that I’m not overreacting to this. My reaction is normal because this is a hard thing to deal with. For contrast, if I tell you I’m struggling with something and you respond with “It’s ok. Just do x, y, and z and it will get better” or “it’s not so bad. Other people have this worse problem” or “just keep going cuz it’s so important. You can’t stop!” that tells me that I shouldn’t have these feelings. That leads me to deny them and try to prevent them. It’s much more debilitating to repress my anxiety constantly than it is to get used to living with it. So as unhelpful as it seems I’ve learned to let my anxiety come. It’s easier than waging war against it. I can save my precious mental and physical energy for things I actually want to do! (clean the house, sew, read, spend time with my husband, etc)

    planningtolive_thebestlifeeverplanningtolive_thebestlifeeverVor 12 Tage
  • I went to the doctors yesterday to talk to them about my depression. I work in a seniors home while homeschooling my two boys. I’ve been trying so hard to keep things “ok” for everyone else, but I am not ok. It’s ok to take care of yourself. I’m realizing it is the only thing I really have any control over any more. Get Better Molly ❤️❤️❤️

    Dajesife DDajesife DVor 12 Tage
  • Thank you for being so real! In the book of Psalms David cries out to God in anguish many times. Emotional pain is nothing to be ashamed of.

    L TilleyL TilleyVor 13 Tage
  • Please just take a day to breathe and relax. No social media, no news, and just being you. Maybe bake or draw or journal. Do what makes you genuinely happy. If you can’t find that right now that’s okay too. You are allowed to feel sadness and cry. There were somedays I was just living to survive and while it’s not the best sometimes it’s necessary when handling depression. Praying for you Molly. I know these feelings will pass. All my love ❤️

    Kathryn SewickKathryn SewickVor 13 Tage
  • Oh... my... god... This video just wasted 20 minutes of my time. Was waiting for you to tell us something actually important.

    JohannaJohannaVor 13 Tage
    • Unnecessary. If you don’t want to watch it then don’t

      Jelleybean18Jelleybean18Vor 6 Tage
  • Hope is the anchor of life.

    MiniMiniVor 13 Tage
  • This hits so close to home.. thank you for being honest! I consider myself a very stable person, but I moved to a new city in October, leaving all my friends and support system behind. Due to the pandemic I obviously can‘t make new friends or discover the new city. This was and still is really hard for me. Hope you are in a better place mentally in 2021! Love from Germany

    AkieJAkieJVor 13 Tage
  • Molly your like a friend or even family you are not a burden ... we all love you we will get though this storm together. Be strong *HUGS*

    angelica Valdezangelica ValdezVor 13 Tage
  • Awe no Molly it’s makes me sad that you are sad 😞 I hope you feel better girly 🙏

    Rosemary ChavezRosemary ChavezVor 13 Tage
  • Thank you for sharing Molly! I’m so proud of you. One of the ways I’ve been coping is I wrote down “Molly Burke would be so proud of you.” And it’s been helping me not feel so alone. You’ve helped me more than you know. You’ve helped me accept my disability and get through the darkest days of my life. Not by being positive all the time but being so real and validating my pain when no one in my life would. Because of you I’ve found a wonderful community of other disabled people and people struggling with mental illness. I’ve felt empowered to share story and get away from abusive and toxic people in my life. You’ve done so many great things and I know you will continue to do great things whether you share it online or not. We’re in this together 💜

    Jess VersusJess VersusVor 13 Tage
  • Molly I love watching your videos because you are so inspirational. Everything you have overcome is an encouragement for me to keep going. I am saying so many prayers for you and sending all my love to you and your family. Be well!!

    Kelcey DillonKelcey DillonVor 13 Tage
  • Just because you are more “privileged” than others doesn’t mean you don’t have bad days or go through hard times, everyone has struggles even internet famous people.. your feelings are valid and it doesn’t come across as complaining you’re just being authentic, love you Molly! 💗

    Addison McDadeAddison McDadeVor 14 Tage
  • Thank you so much for sharing!! Like you said, I have hope that we all will get out of this 💗💗💗

    Lia RLia RVor 14 Tage
  • Sending you love

    Beka O'MearaBeka O'MearaVor 14 Tage
  • Precious Molly, I've prided myself with my mental illness journey as well, and let me tell you..... Mental illness isn't linear. I thought I had pretty decent control over my anxiety until I was having hours upon hours of random panic attacks (they didn't just feel like hours, they were hours). I've never been one to turn to pharmaceuticals if I don't have to. But I realized I didn't have any more tools to reach for and my anxiety was making me want to kms just to have it end. I too felt like I didn't have any reason to be having my anxiety attacks as my GAD was manageable until it wasn't. And I realize I'm not alone, I realize I'm not the only person who's struggling mentally. So I reached out to my mental health team and started a medication. I still have my anxiety but it's not as bad. We'll get there, girl. Thank you for sharing with us.

    Deanna CDeanna CVor 14 Tage
    • I relate to that a lot. Last year I had changed my medication, gone back to university and things were starting to look up. Now I feel like most of my progress has been reset and I'm scared to leave the house again. Would've been much worse without the meds, though 🙃 We'll get there, we have no other choice 💖

      Alex TheBadassBadgerAlex TheBadassBadgerVor 10 Tage
  • I also think people forget that people with disabilities will have trouble regardless of their money and class

    pfft xoxopfft xoxoVor 14 Tage
  • Your words made me so emotional and inspired. Thank you so much for this video. ♥️

    Sze Sze LuiSze Sze LuiVor 14 Tage
  • Lovely Molly, hope you feel better soon. I'm going through a very hard time too, we'll get through this! Big hugs

    joanabjoanabVor 14 Tage
  • After years of watching you I need to finally say I so love the way your eyes move... It's like a super power that better seeing humans don't have. You're so strong & powerful... More than strong & powerful than you really realize. Your superpowers can help so many! The more we help others, the more our own stuff doesn't mess with us as much... Much love!!!

    Deane TRDeane TRVor 14 Tage
  • Lavender is an adorable name 🥺🥺

    StephanieStephanieVor 14 Tage
  • It doesn’t matter if it’s not the worst thing you’ve ever felt, if it’s the worst thing THEY’VE ever felt. Those words taught me a lot about empathy and not minimizing someone else’s pain. ❤️

    JanineBeanJanineBeanVor 14 Tage
  • Mental illness doesn’t always care about your blessings. The most frustrating part is that your life could be on top of the world and your mind could be down in the marianas trench.

    JanineBeanJanineBeanVor 14 Tage
  • I know this video was so hard for you to make, but I am so happy you did.❤️

    Shaylei BrutgerShaylei BrutgerVor 15 Tage
  • I don't know if someone said this already but this makeup on Molly is soooo cute. Love you Molly everyone does.

    Ana MataAna MataVor 15 Tage
  • Molly......I have been following you for a long time you are always so supportive to us and all your fans! And sending them awesome vibes. It's time the Bee fam helps you now 🐝

    Maiyah HodgesMaiyah HodgesVor 15 Tage
  • So much love to you 💕

    channeloflightchanneloflightVor 15 Tage
  • Pain is Pain and Pain is valid

    Frances ReinekeFrances ReinekeVor 15 Tage
  • We all love you Molly! It is so true and thank you for saying that just because someone has "worse" struggles, it doesn't diminish the personal struggle you may be feeling. Also... very unrelated and probably inappropriate but your makeup looks amazing!! Love your eyeshadow and lip color!!

    Carolyn PrzybylaCarolyn PrzybylaVor 15 Tage
  • Just as much as you are our pillar we are your pillar too. Be yourself and everyone needs to get things off their chest. Just remember we are here for you always.

    Shannon BlantonShannon BlantonVor 15 Tage
  • I relate so much to crying everyday. Feeling like it’s just one thing after another. Feeling so sad, irritable, unmotivated. I’m praying this ends sooner then later and everyone can start healing from all of this ❤️

    MICHELLES EMPIREMICHELLES EMPIREVor 15 Tage
  • Honestly I don’t know why I’m always drawn to your videos, I have nothing in common with you. Somehow I always end up binge watching your videos for hours! You’re a smart and strong women and have accomplished so much! You’re very inspirational. I really appreciate this video! It’s ok to feel what we feel even if someone is struggling with more. Everyone’s feeling are valid. Molly you are a badass! I am rooting for you.

    Diana HenaoDiana HenaoVor 15 Tage
  • Thank you for posting this Molly. It made me feel better knowing that I'm not alone xo

    mkassm613mkassm613Vor 15 Tage
  • Please don't feel guilty, Molly! You've done so much for us, let us be there for you as well. We understand you're human, and a video as vulnerable as this proves that even more so. Also, it's totally valid to feel bad even when you're grateful for the things you have.

    Jillian CatherineJillian CatherineVor 15 Tage
  • Omg. I had a semi traumatic life but had an uncle that was severely abused by his mother. Kinda like the book "a child called it" I got shipped to live with him & my aunt. On the c way to his counseling meetings I felt & said the exact same thing to him. And he turned around and said exactly what you said,"if that's the worst pain u had it is as valid as mine. Also, I'm feeling the same. There's a shift in consciousness going on in everyone. I'm trying to be optimistic & hope for something positive & beautiful to happen in the world 🌎 but religion trauma has me feeling like maybe it's the end of the world. I'm no conspiracy theorist but I have begun healing myself & I definitely feel strange. And it seems everything & everyone is whacked right now. Idk what to think or believe Anymore. Thank u Molly. I am sighted but have gained sooo much knowledge from your strength. No pity here. I ADMIRE YOU. You've helped me more than u know. Thank you. Hoping the best for u. Sending hugs & positive vibes your way💙💙 u deserve nothing less🥰🥰

    HelplesslyhopingHelplesslyhopingVor 15 Tage
  • 💔💔💔💔💔

    Tara GelhausTara GelhausVor 15 Tage
  • It’s ok to feel hurt, upset, confused and everything else. We are only human we can only take so much before it tears us down. Most importantly you have to take care of yo and do what is best for you. Everyone deals with stuff differently and everyone has a different view as to the hardest time in their life. Just because one person is not struggling as much as one person does not mean that the first person is not in over their head. You got this keep your head high take it one breath at a time.

    Kayli McGinnisKayli McGinnisVor 15 Tage
  • I hope people will take the vaccine. You're not alone Molly. So many people are going through similar things. Get yourselves vaccinated as soon as possible so we an get through this!

    Lebanese DaneLebanese DaneVor 16 Tage
  • Haven’t seen you for a while and you look so damn good! What happened idk? Lost weight?

    AdeebAdeebVor 16 Tage
  • Molly we love you so much, I’m so sorry to hear about your struggles and please know that you can rant to us and confide in us. Thank you so much for your honesty, and don’t feel guilty for not telling us everything. You deserve your privacy and please if you need time away from DEhave don’t feel guilty for taking it ❤️🥺 your pain is valid and your emotions are valid. Stay healthy and safe, we love you so much.

    Emma KiddEmma KiddVor 16 Tage
  • Please excuse my ignorance, but can someone tell me the parts that there was no sound but she was still talking? I know it is a sensitive subject.

    Emily JoyceEmily JoyceVor 16 Tage
    • Probably domestic violence and gun fire

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 16 Tage
  • Thank you Molly. I have also struggled with always being there to help people and being their light and hope. Sometimes it feels like you are losing yourself, because you give so much to everyone else. Today I took a break, relaxed, and prayed. I also watched this video! I feel so much better now. We can make it! Ps you treat us like friends and help us with our problems so of course we’ll be there for you!❤️

    Mackenzie BarrettMackenzie BarrettVor 16 Tage
  • We all want you to be honest Molly, I hope this is a safe place for you. I think it's great that you're going back to Canada to be with your family. That sounds like it was a very good decision for you. I feel you so much right now girl. It's ok!!!! You are free to feel this was. EVERY struggle is valid!!!! Believe that for yourself!!! We're all behind you right now Molly. I'm behind you! I know your family and Adrian support you!! Don't fight it, embrace it. Embrace the pain cause you will get through it! The light is there, you will see it soon I promise! Sending you love from me, Karinne.

    Karinne WilberKarinne WilberVor 16 Tage
  • Sending strength and hugs your way!!!

    Susan BauerSusan BauerVor 17 Tage
  • We love you, molly! This video was really inspiring because I know that even my idols are struggling. I hope you feel better soon ♥️

    Elizabeth AsmussenElizabeth AsmussenVor 17 Tage
  • Girl you can tell us what is bothering you! To feel better sometimes tell your issues can help! But only tell what you're comfortable with! Just remember your problems are not aburden!

    Tony TTony TVor 17 Tage
  • As someone with a disability I hate the narrative that it's our job to inspire others, give others hope, and be seen as a reason to be grateful (because they 'don't have it as bad as us'). This is so damaging keeps ableism alive, and prevents others from seeing us as real people with a myriad of experiences and feelings, and makes us feel like we don't deserve to be happy (after all, if we have it that bad we shouldn't be happy) or don't deserve to feel guilty (because if we aren't happy we are somehow being ungrateful for being allowed to exist). As you say, everyone's pain and experiences are valid, and that includes yours. Thank you for being open and honest. Yes you have your privacy, and should decide what you want to share or not, but having disabled content creators only share the positives in their lives adds to the assumption that we are here to make others feel better about their lives. Yes, we can be positive, but pretending to not be struggling isn't healthy for anyone (disabled or not) and I hate that you feel guilty for not feeling you are being inspiring, when you need to be focusing on your life and living it.

    Tamara EppsTamara EppsVor 17 Tage
  • +MollyBurke I can relate to this so much. I got back into therapy as well because I also felt like a burden. Stay strong, and thank you for sharing your story.

    ChristaChristaVor 17 Tage
  • Sending you hugs! You can get through this. I have struggled with a mental illness before too and continue my recovery. You are not alone, Molly! ❤️❤️❤️

    Sarah MiddletonSarah MiddletonVor 17 Tage
  • Thank you for doing your best to express how you are feeling, it's hard to get vulnerable when you feel like your being judged and worry about your honesty getting negative feedback. You have noone to justify or explain anything regarding your physical health or your finances by saying you know people have died & have it worse. You just made your feelings & mental health not as important as someone struggling in a different way. Noone can tell someone their pain isn't as difficult as another person. I know for me personally, mental & emotional pain is way harder to deal with than physical pain. If my mental health is in need of love, support, understanding and acceptance and I don't feel like I'm ok, it will affect every other part of my life. Depression is as debilitating to me as someone who is recovering from a surgery. Until it is feeling like its healing...I will isolate, lose energy, stop taking care of myself in every way until I am in a better place mentally. For me, when I feel the symptoms starting to get worse than just having a bad day or needing some time to take a break from anything & everything that's causing me to be overwhelmed, know that I need to reach out to someone who is positive, kind, honest, understanding and non judgmental and doesnt makes me feel like what I'm going through is less important than what someone else is going through. There will always be someone who feels they have it worse & someone you believe has it better or easier,. The truth is noone can know or should compare what they have struggled with to anyone else. Its extremely unhealthy and causes you to justify to people you think are thinking you don't have it bad, that you accept them telling you how you should think. It also makes you feel insecure and want what you view as someone who has it better. We are all different, have different values, opinions, feelings, and deal with things different. So people who compare or feel judged or like they have to explain or are in a competition. The only person people should focus on or compare themself to is themself. If you are being honest, making an effort to be better than the person you were yesterday and explain to a trusted, understanding, compassionate person how they are feeling and hopefully will get words of encouragements, advice, support, and gives them the attention & hope that they need, you will hopefully start feeling better. I know for me, who I surround myself with, the things I watch, what I value, all effects how I feel. Miserable, selfish, constant complainers, will have a negative effect. Your intake determines your output alot of times. We all have different things that we value or are important to us, so allow people their opinions, but know that they probably haven't been taught how to have a healthy relationship with other people& some people focus or judge other people so they don't have to focus on themselves. Be good to yourself, know your worth, show your acceptance and appreciation for everyone struggling with something, but know u deserve the same kindness and respect. Just my personal opinion and what has helped me, along with therapy and meditation.

    Michelle TorresMichelle TorresVor 17 Tage
  • Hey Molly. I’m newer to your channel, but wanted to let you know that you are a wonderful example. I can tell you genuinely care about others. Thank you for being vulnerable and showing it’s ok to be broken and not ok, but knowing that there is still hope and light at the end of the tunnel. Praying that you will find a great place to live and for Gallop and your new guide dog. 💕

    Allie RosaAllie RosaVor 17 Tage
  • Oh Molly wish I could help you

    Midnyte KittenMidnyte KittenVor 17 Tage
  • ❤️❤️

    Charlotte BergCharlotte BergVor 17 Tage
  • So glad you opened up Molly about what you've been going through even though it's breaking my heart to hear about all your lifes struggles it has got to get better! It will ,we will all pray for you

    A.H. Trials & TribulationsA.H. Trials & TribulationsVor 17 Tage
  • What is your boyfriend doing while you are in Canada? Why are you not staying with him and getting a new home in LA?

    L SL SVor 17 Tage
    • She wanted to see her dad for Christmas. She wants the free health care that Canada has. He is at an AirBnB in LA working.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 17 Tage
  • I'm sending you love and good energy all the way from Argentina. I hug you from the distance and hope you're in a peacefull place mentally. We'll get to live instead of survive very soon, we've overcame a lot already.

    Julia SchapiraJulia SchapiraVor 18 Tage
  • I have also struggled for 10+ years of depression and other stuff, but something I've learned is that no matter how many good things and accomplishments you have in your life, you're still allowed to struggle, and cry, and feel pain for more than a minute. I have a beautiful cat, an amazing boyfriend, really good parents and living situation. But for a long time I was still dying inside. It's okay to feel that pain, it doesn't mean you aren't grateful for the good things in your life.

    LilaLemonLilaLemonVor 18 Tage
  • I came across you on fb not so long ago so much about what you have said I've learnt from, I also wast expecting u to talk about things I could relate to. From a single dad in wales x

    StevenStevenVor 18 Tage
  • The biggest thing I'm working on learning is Problems are relative Just because they are problems that are "privileged" in your grand scheme of things they are still problems that are relative to you. Don't feel guilty, you are a safe space for so many. We are grateful to be able to help be a safe space for you 💓

    Auna MarieAuna MarieVor 18 Tage
  • You have really helped me and you do bring me hope, but that is because your real, I’m sorry your struggling extra right now, that doesn’t change how amazing you are or how much hope you bring xxx

    Leigh NeedhamLeigh NeedhamVor 18 Tage
  • ❤️

    Jamie SmithJamie SmithVor 18 Tage
  • Your honesty is the reason why I followed you. Last months I just wasn't enjoying your videos that much so.. I really appriciate this video ♥️

    Ana Inés GonzálezAna Inés GonzálezVor 18 Tage
  • ... does she have someone read these comments

    Emy GamingEmy GamingVor 18 Tage
    • No. She reads them using voiceover

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 18 Tage
  • thank you so much for sharing your feelings and your situation, honestly, raw and real. I'm so sick of people acting like everything is ok and telling others you just need to relax, you just need to work more and other people struggle much more, so you don't have a reason to struggle. Telling me this, THATS NOT HELPING! I'm sad, I'm exhauxted, I can't focus anymore, I'm overworked and overwhelmed, I don't have fun doing things I liked before.. and everything just gets worse and all people just say, that you need to come down and push yourself through.. :( :( :( I miss my family, I miss my friends, I miss when life was good and I felt happy for myself and my life. and in the media, everybody still seems to have a good time? how? I'm doing everything wrong ....

    Fräulein FroschFräulein FroschVor 18 Tage
  • We love u molly omg we all gonna get through this ❤️❤️

    TAYLOR XxxNICOLETAYLOR XxxNICOLEVor 18 Tage
  • Molly, I am just sending you a huge hug. Lots of love to you. Thank you for sharing

    Julie BerardJulie BerardVor 18 Tage
  • Girl I had to pause this video and just say protect what you feel the need to protect and share what you feel you need to share. No one fully understands the full trauma we're all going to experience following this pandemic because it has affected every aspect of life down to our fundamental core as humans. Experiencing one unexpected change is hard enough let alone the many changes and traumatic experiences you've gone through in one year alone. Focus on your mental health, focus on you. Thank you for being real. I don't know if you'll read this comment or not but I hope others have shared the same sentiments and you read those. Everyone needs a little more humanity and understanding after the year we've had and the continued hardships we're going through. Sending you virtual hugs ❤ ❤❤

    Shelby Van HoyShelby Van HoyVor 18 Tage
  • i wonder if the youtuber was colleen..?

    Kenzy HeavilinKenzy HeavilinVor 18 Tage
    • She was cancelled? Why?

      Jelleybean18Jelleybean18Vor 6 Tage
  • Please have your editor take it easy on the jump cuts- it's really unnerving - especially during an emotional video to see the screen jump every 4 seconds (literally 4 seconds, I actually went back and took the time to count to make sure I wasn't losing it). I understand editing is crucial to keep video times reasonable and give them a professional touch but with something like this- an extra second here and there where Molly is expressing herself physically with different facial movements is really important to the mood of the video.

    The Megan ExperienceThe Megan ExperienceVor 18 Tage
    • I get your point but they probably cut out Molly completely breaking down, to be honest. That’s something she deserves to keep personal

      Jelleybean18Jelleybean18Vor 6 Tage
    • They are done because it was an emotional video and need to stop recording when she was too emotional to talk.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 18 Tage
  • Thank You So Much Molly. I'm 67, sold my home of 31 years and am out away from everything familiar staying in airbnbs until I figure out where to live for the rest of my life... Hearing you is helping me feel not quite so alone. Thank you.

    Lori JLori JVor 18 Tage
  • Ur not the only one crying every day I can tell u I cry most days.

    Samantha CrawfordSamantha CrawfordVor 19 Tage
  • From my personal experiences. It's hard to talk about depression and bad stuff while appearing happy like nothing is wrong. My heart goes out to people with family members living in nursing homes with dementia and or alzheimers with covid lock downs.

    Mr ThomasMr ThomasVor 19 Tage
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