Interviewing My Mom About Raising A Blind Daughter…

29 Jul 2020
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I'm Molly, a typical sushi, makeup, and fashion loving millennial girl who just so happens to be blind! I was diagnosed with Retinitis Pigmentosa at just 4 years old and began public speaking at age 5. I started just doing motivational speaking, but now I make videos and even model! Even though I can’t see, I know that there are bright spots in everything we face. Let’s find them together. 💕

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  • What other questions would you like my mom to answer? Would you be interested in seeing another video like this one?

    Molly BurkeMolly BurkeVor 6 Monate
    • what did she think about getting a guide dog?

      Grace MorrisseyGrace MorrisseyVor 5 Tage
    • Molly I heard you on the RTÉ radio station a few months ago :-)

      Ádhamh Mac ConchobhairÁdhamh Mac ConchobhairVor Monat
    • Funny stories would be great 💜

      Jaxx AJaxx AVor 5 Monate
    • Hi Milly is You're Mom from Cork? I Am, do ye ever come back to visit? Lots of love you're amazing and you're Mom

      Jan EireJan EireVor 5 Monate
    • This may be silly, Naimh, but do you purposely wear only one earring?

      Meechyshel MMeechyshel MVor 5 Monate
  • Imagine having a supportive parent like that!

    Mitzy NonakaMitzy NonakaVor 8 Minuten
  • Got an ad for a pregnancy test on this video and I don't have the plumbing to make use of it so maybe you're the one who needs it

    : D: DVor 17 Tage
  • 3:06 I loved watching Molly's mom take control of the situation. As a sighted person, I was curious as to how they communicate. :)

    Humble WorldHumble WorldVor 19 Tage
  • I started tearing up when you were talking about having no friends and your mom becoming your best friend because that is exactly what happened to me. I went through a lot of bullying and lost all my friends in the 10th grade and then got very depressed/suicidal. So my mom became my best friend and we started doing everything together, she is still my best friend to this day and I love and appreciate her so much❤️

    Blaire AlexandraBlaire AlexandraVor 23 Tage
  • I love molly and ro

    Sydney WileySydney WileyVor 23 Tage
  • Big hugs to you Molly, and huge respect to you mummah B. I personally think you two should be the spokespeople for blindness and family mental health through blindness. You have done everything right and continue to be a shining example of how a family helps each other through.

    Jim VrchotaJim VrchotaVor 26 Tage
  • There was an ad for contact lenses before this video 😳😂

    milly kaymilly kayVor Monat
  • the thing that annoys me is the comments about molly’s interrupting. like if it annoys you that much then why are you watching the video and leaving hate comments?? just a reminder she is BLIND so she can’t see visual cues that people give to tell if they are done talking or if they are continuing.

    lucy mcdowelllucy mcdowellVor Monat
  • For anyone wondering, Gaelic isn't a single language. It's three. Irish (Gaeilge) Manx (Gaelg) Scottish Gaelic (Gàidhlig)

    Ádhamh Mac ConchobhairÁdhamh Mac ConchobhairVor Monat
  • Your mam's accent keeps switching between Canadian and Irish😂

    Ádhamh Mac ConchobhairÁdhamh Mac ConchobhairVor Monat
  • Mh makes a v or w sound in Irish

    Ádhamh Mac ConchobhairÁdhamh Mac ConchobhairVor Monat
  • Hearing Niamh describe the highway; I’m near ish to where you guys are from so I’m just imagining the 401 lmfao. Sending love 🇨🇦 *edit: where they’re from as in when they lived in the GTA lol

    jaycii lovejaycii loveVor Monat
  • Your mom's voice is charming 😍

    Hemen WebeshetHemen WebeshetVor Monat
  • Hi Molly I love your videos by the way just to let you know I am also blind, I lost my vision last November I was wanting to know if you can take a look at my channel. I’m also looking for friends and some ideas you inspire me I would love to tuck. I also have a Facebook page Ricki‘s blind eyes I’m a new DEhave

    Rickis Blind eyesRickis Blind eyesVor Monat
  • My Grandson has combined it. He calls me Grandma Sue Sue. He decided that and it's great.

    Susan ClowSusan ClowVor 2 Monate
  • love this! More please!

    planetarium relationplanetarium relationVor 2 Monate
  • You are amazing and beautiful! I would no next to nothing about blindness without you, and I would've never considered any thing about it as positive without you and your mom! Hearing your moms outlook was amazing! I would love another video like this in the future, if possible!

    Casey SaylorCasey SaylorVor 2 Monate
  • Do you ever want to dislike the dislikes/the dislikers?

    Casey SaylorCasey SaylorVor 2 Monate
  • Did i hear mermaiding!?!?! You want to mermaid!? You totally can!!! Us mermaids would LOVE you in the community. I WOULD LOVE TO SEE A VIDEO OF YOU TRYING IT. DOOOOO IT! Love you Molly!

    Axel DayAxel DayVor 2 Monate
  • also neve you have been a parent role to Molly but the difference between you and other parents is that you give respect to your children

    Ticky TwitTicky TwitVor 3 Monate
  • yeah I think the mum and dad vocab can put people in the subconscious box of being other than their 'own self' but instead a 'machine', the respect is different; 'mum' can be less respected because it's her role as a mum to be of 'your service'...whereas 'Neve' is her own person, she gave birth to you but she is her unique person and shall be respected, its phycologically a healthy boundary and I like it.

    Ticky TwitTicky TwitVor 3 Monate
  • How about a video with your brother?

    Teddypup08Teddypup08Vor 3 Monate
    • He is in England and he does not want to be on camera.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 28 Tage
  • Wait, your brother is blind too? Love your vids :)

    MicaMicaVor 3 Monate
    • No. He is not blind.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 28 Tage
  • This video has made me feel so much closer to knowing Molly. Hearing that she had to sleep in her parents room, I don’t know it just it shows a lot of humanity and it has helped me understand her a little bit better. It really goes to show just how much she has gone through and the journey she has been on to end up being such a wonderful positive person. She’s always been that person inside, but she had to work to let it show and to let it feel natural. She is amazing ❤️

    Lady SmithLady SmithVor 3 Monate
  • Okay, your mom's hair is awesome.

    Olivia DreisingerOlivia DreisingerVor 3 Monate
  • If your mom is in LA and your dad is in Canada, how do they make that relationship work?

    linda hartlinda hartVor 3 Monate
  • FYI www.scandit.com/blog/barcode-scanning-for-the-blind-codecheck-info-scanguide/

    linda hartlinda hartVor 3 Monate
  • Love this!! More videos like this!

    Kali ThompsonKali ThompsonVor 3 Monate
  • Thank you, really great questions and video.

    Sims4uSims4uVor 3 Monate
  • Molly - I just found you today (through Mama Dr. ?)... You have been so cool to open up about all the different things in your life - helping the general population understand about the blind community. I heard you were looking for 2M subscribers. You got a new one today!! *SUBSCRIBED!*

    Gunn WrightsGunn WrightsVor 3 Monate
  • I love all of your positivity and fun content... Just curious why we haven't seen gallup in your recent videos?

    Cristin Live AcresCristin Live AcresVor 4 Monate
  • "Put Tiktok down, you need to go to bed because we have to get up for a meeting." 🤣🤣 oh my god I love Niamh.

    Dylan CardenasDylan CardenasVor 4 Monate
  • Niamh needs her own channel

    Murder DuckMurder DuckVor 4 Monate
  • Molly this isn't really a question for your mom but i was wondering and sorry if you have already answered it. but can you ride a bike?

    Kim GatherumKim GatherumVor 4 Monate
    • She has ridden a bike. Not for long periods.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 28 Tage
  • What happened to Gypsy?

    Teddypup08Teddypup08Vor 4 Monate
    • I can’t remember the story, but basically she feel ill, and passed away.

      Joseph SeabourneJoseph SeabourneVor 2 Monate
  • Hey Molly can you do an interview like this with your brother? I am really curious about his experience and perspective on having a blind sister. I think it would be cool to relate to siblings who need some insight or guidance

    Brianna_ Anderson_Brianna_ Anderson_Vor 4 Monate
    • He is in England and he does not want to be on camera.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 28 Tage
  • Molly, just so you know, your very pretty. I mean really really pretty. The kind of pretty people can envy. And the blonde hair....girl, you were made to be a blonde. So beautiful!!

    MelanieMelanieVor 4 Monate
  • I started calling my parents by their first names when I was in my teens. First as a joke then it just stuck. They never minded.

    Cindy Hickman FrenchCindy Hickman FrenchVor 4 Monate
  • Hi molly my names danika and I'm 11 and I'm completely blind in my left eye and low vision in my right and your videos really help me so thank you so much 😊

    Danika BeebeDanika BeebeVor 4 Monate
  • Hey Neve means "snow" in italian!

    Diego PeruzzoDiego PeruzzoVor 4 Monate
  • Please do the mermaid swimming and film it! It would be so pretty!

    dlxedlxeVor 4 Monate
    • She already did.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 28 Tage
  • This is a lovely video! Do you think you could acknowledge the name of the dog Gypsy being a racial slur against Romani people?

    R SweetR SweetVor 5 Monate
    • She did not name her and she has been dead for a long time.

      Dan SgambelluriDan SgambelluriVor 28 Tage
  • The name thing is so funny to me because in my family they consider it disrespectful to not say Aunt and then the name of something and I’ve never seen the issue with not saying it and just calling them by there name 😂 one time I accidentally called my gear aunt Lydia just Lydia and she looked at me and said “Thank you, and it’s auntie Lydia.” And I felt bad 😂

    Reyna BatesReyna BatesVor 5 Monate
  • How much can you see?

    Shelly BradburyShelly BradburyVor 5 Monate
    • What she has said is she has light perception, and she sees her “fireworks” which are basically just flashing colourful things shes sees 24/7. “A picture is worth 1,000 words” literally. The human eye sees at up to 60 FPS - no coincidence that’s the max of many screens/videos/etc. So, assuming that that saying is true, 1000x60 = 60000 so, we would need 6,000 words to describe just 1 second of our vision. It’s very hard to explain what we can see.

      Joseph SeabourneJoseph SeabourneVor 2 Monate
  • For everyone who comments about Molly interrupting, have you ever been in a conference call without video? If you have you’ve probably experienced how hard it can be not to interrupt people/to add to the conversation without interrupting others because you can’t see the other people and get those visual cues. So maybe consider that before being rude?

    Katherine WKatherine WVor 5 Monate
    • Yeah, social skills are the hardest thing for a blind person. 90% of human communication is visual.

      Joseph SeabourneJoseph SeabourneVor 2 Monate
  • This is so cute! I also call my mom by her first name sometimes but I made up a translated version of her name hahah her name’s Maria Cristina, but I call her Mary Christmas sometimes, and my whole family started doing it too and she loves it

    bestnarryeverbestnarryeverVor 5 Monate
  • Just seeing this vlog❣️ LOVE your positivety❣️ My mom's youngest sister is blind.. I wish she would have had the opportunities in life that you have had. She is now in her 70's and VERY ISOLATED 😥. Even though she has 2 children & multiple grandchildren. Her life-partner (I choose to call him my Uncle, since he has been in my life since before I was born).. even though he is neither of her son's fathers, has stayed by her side for near 50 years. She has had multiple guide dogs, but not many "people" friends. I personally haven't seen her in over 20+ years. The main reason for that is I live in Hawai'i and she lives on the Mainland. (Continental US). I have not seen any of my family unless they have come to see me😥❣️ I love what a STRONG BOND YOU HAVE WITH YOUR MOM❣️My Mom made her last trip out here to visit my family in 2018, for my middle child's High School Graduation! She at that point, told me, she would not be making any more trips out here. 😭!! Later that year, she fell and broke part of her back & pelvis. It was almost like an omen. I talk to her almost DAILY❣️ I don't know what I would do without her 🥰❣️ 💞 ALOHA FROM HAWAI'I 💞🌹 LYSSA 🌹

    Lyssa MouraLyssa MouraVor 5 Monate
  • Does anybody know what zodiac sign Molly's mom is? Also, such a lovely interview and the whole story of mental health difficulties and the useful strategies that you found for them, it's so inspirational! Thank you for sharing your experience both Molly and mama Bee! 💗😊

    Dici sparkleDici sparkleVor 5 Monate
  • I grew up in a Big Italian Catholic Family we would be told you call us mom n Dad n Mrs n Mr

    Kathy KinderKathy KinderVor 5 Monate
  • mom goals

    sara S.ksara S.kVor 5 Monate
  • 🐝💕

    carissimecarissimeVor 5 Monate
  • I call my mom by her first name!! People always tell me it’s “disrespectful” but it’s not like that at all!!

    Kaylin McKnightKaylin McKnightVor 5 Monate
  • I just saw her comment on a video about Claire Wineland (a young woman that passed away due to cystic fibrosis) and I had no idea she was blind. Im not trying to be rude but she doesn't look blind. I have never a blind person so I always assumed it's what I see in movies. I'm glad I clicked on her channel after seeing people comment under her comment so I can hopefully learn more!

    Kelly OliveiraKelly OliveiraVor 5 Monate
  • Me & my mom just had the same convo the other day about calling your parents by their first name & we both don’t understand it. Only time I ever call my mom by either of her first names (adopter name/orphanage name) is if I yell mom/momma 80 times & she doesn’t answer. Everyone always used to call my parents mom/dad too. I guess if you aren’t apart of a family who calls your parents by their first names it’s just weird.

    AD0GSW0RLDAD0GSW0RLDVor 5 Monate
  • Rewatching some of your videos, one of my dogs Lady is also afraid of having her picture taken. I’ve just noticed you look very like your mom.

    Ivanna O'SullivanIvanna O'SullivanVor 5 Monate
  • The more I hear about your parents the more it fills my heart to know that such sweet, caring, and supportive humans exist. Knowing that you were struggling and allowing you to be in their private space whenever you needed it is such a beautiful and selfless way to express love. This video was so fun and heartfelt. Thank you for making it! 💕

    weirdlycrazyyweirdlycrazyyVor 5 Monate
  • can i please talk to you and neve about greif

    EllsworthEllsworthVor 5 Monate
  • So much different than my childhood being mainstreamed. Definitely do more of these!

    Julie DewJulie DewVor 5 Monate
  • I had no idea you were blind molly

    Sandy CandySandy CandyVor 5 Monate
  • Definitely let's see another one of these videos 💖

    Shyla010Shyla010Vor 5 Monate
  • I would LOVE to see a story time from your Mom on meeting your dad! You mentioned in your new boyfriend video that they have such an interesting and quick start! As an Irish person, I would love to know how that worked for her back then and what her family thought, etc

    Jenns EustaceJenns EustaceVor 5 Monate
  • Molly inherited her mom's penchant for talking with her hands.

    Tracy LinTracy LinVor 5 Monate
  • You need to make more of these, love hearing your moms perspective! And I think it could help a lot of parents 💗

    IngridlosneslokkenIngridlosneslokkenVor 5 Monate
  • The beginning of your video made me think of my sister and me. My sister addresses my mom formally, whereas I address my mom informally. 4:38 You remind me of a teacher who insisted on being addressed by her first name. Whenever someone said "juf" (our Dutch version of "miss") she just wouldn't respond. 5:03 I think you need a word with your editor, Molly. *wink*

    Bert VisscherBert VisscherVor 5 Monate
  • My name is Niamh too 🤗 to explain the pronunciation, certain constanants before the letter' h' is pronounced like the English 'V' in the Irish language for example, 'mh' along with 'bh', 'dh' etc. Kind of like how Germans pronounce W as a V.

    Niamh GallagherNiamh GallagherVor 5 Monate
  • You have such amazing parents!!

    Amber PriceAmber PriceVor 5 Monate
  • Your mother's taste in eye wear is SPECtacular! ;)

    RhythmGhostRhythmGhostVor 5 Monate
  • I loved this i cried laughing at the tennis story so adorable!!!

    Tosh VickersTosh VickersVor 5 Monate
  • I’m not trying to be mean or rude at all but please work on not interrupting please ☺️

    Kristan StewartKristan StewartVor 5 Monate
  • I love videos like this ❤️

    Kali MorquechoKali MorquechoVor 5 Monate
  • I cried when Neve said we did it all before Molly went blind. Appreciate the parenting that Neve and Peter are providing to Molly. Love this!! What a strong and lovely daughter and what a strong and lovely mom!! ❤️

    Jia BryantJia BryantVor 5 Monate
  • Everybody's mom should be like this

    Steve BennetSteve BennetVor 5 Monate
  • Your mom has done such an amazing job helping you navigate through life and the hardships, as well as all the great adventures on your bucket list. This is such a great deal. Beautiful! I just found out of a young woman who committed suicide. She didn’t receive the support or help she needed, suffered lifelong, and fell though the cracks. Best wishes to you both, and your loved ones.

    Sophia Ann ElizabethSophia Ann ElizabethVor 5 Monate
  • Your channel opened my eyes.ı adore your ambition, personality, the way u speak.

    Eylül AyEylül AyVor 5 Monate
  • I love this video

    moonatnoonmoonatnoonVor 5 Monate
  • I love mama burke! She is so sweet ❤

    Marlene ZarahMarlene ZarahVor 5 Monate
  • So I see a lot of people talking about Molly’s tendency to speak over others - her mom in this instance - in the comments section. I would just like to add to the conversation by informing everyone that there is something called sensory input and motor output. When all of our senses are working properly I think it’s easy for us to be unaware of all of the cues - whether they be social, environmental, haptic, auditory, or visual - that we are constantly picking up in our interactions with other people. Sensory input is when the body gathers information through our various senses. After the brain has processed the information it’s gathered, impulses are then prompted from the brain and spinal cord to muscles and glands, which is called motor output. Someone may take a breath, have their eyes light up, etc that lets us know when to interject or pause during a conversation. These are all visual cues that Molly wouldn’t have due to her impaired sight. Molly’s channel is super informative, but there are other resources to learn about various sensory related disabilities, or disabilities in general as well. Above all, pls remember to be thankful for the many, many “small” things we take for granted every day including our ability to walk, talk, smell, taste, touch, hear and see.

    Jay VeeJay VeeVor 5 Monate
    • I have a hearing disability. Once I was fitted with proper high technology advance hearing aids. My world change. My motor skills and cues that I didn't have suddenly improved dramically. Listening more and understanding brought more value into my conversation and relationships with others improved. I so glad that a friend turned me unto a audiologist who so happen for be hearing impaired brought the experience to a whole new level. And this same friend shared this video to me about Molly. This is more info and understanding and who we share similiar situations but from different disability.

      5-minute Hiit zone workout5-minute Hiit zone workoutVor Monat
  • Something feels weird about molly calling her parents by there first names... 😬😬

    Izzy DeansIzzy DeansVor 5 Monate
  • The result of being such an amazing parent is having such an amazing child. Life goals

    Catt CCatt CVor 5 Monate
  • Beautiful Pearlie whites on mamma Bee 🐝 🙂

    Anthony DildronAnthony DildronVor 5 Monate
  • Yes! That’s the difference! My Mom always treated my bro & I like friends, but maturely! It’s the parent that acts like a toddler you gotta watch out for 😂.

    Tay KatooTay KatooVor 5 Monate
  • I am very happy for you relation and now I understand why Molly is how she is very intelligent but I am a bit sat because she already has a boyfriend. All the best Molly you are so cute and beautiful how you are.

    J PieschaconJ PieschaconVor 5 Monate
  • God, I wish I had a relationship like this with my Mom, I never get one on one time unless it's in the car :(

    The Adventures of Pip and CheekThe Adventures of Pip and CheekVor 5 Monate
  • I know you’ll probably never see this Molly, but I’m so grateful to have found your channel. I do not have any physical disabilities, but my family and I are going through something Incredibly difficult; and I’m glad to hear the thoughts, experiences, and insights from you and your mom 🤍 Thank you!

    Caitlin T.Caitlin T.Vor 5 Monate
  • Mama bee is such a good mom. You guys made me cry.

    Rachel RheineckerRachel RheineckerVor 5 Monate
  • Love that I share a name with your mammy she’s lovely 💞

    Niamh MiaNiamh MiaVor 5 Monate
  • When gallop retires, is it possible to have your mom adopt him or someone you know? Or does he have to go thru a certain rehoming thru your guide dog program

    Keresa HarderKeresa HarderVor 5 Monate
    • @Kelsey that is so cool! I didnt know that could be an option

      Keresa HarderKeresa HarderVor 5 Monate
    • Her parents plan on taking Gallop

      KelseyKelseyVor 5 Monate
  • Omg does your mom want to adopt me please??? She's so great. I've been fine with what I've had, but watching this makes me really feel the loss of what was missing.

    Anna HoneyAnna HoneyVor 5 Monate
  • I’m always aware that Molly is blind, but I forget that she actually can’t see! Love this video 💕

    Caitlin SirjuesinghCaitlin SirjuesinghVor 5 Monate
  • Molly your makeup looks amazing. Your freckles are so cute.

    Anne WagnerAnne WagnerVor 5 Monate
  • Thank you so much for sharing! I’m recently blind and while I’m not a parent of a blind child I am a parent and my children are having to learn how to adapt to the new me.. I’m hoping eventually to be even half as positive as you ladies are- it’s all so new and I still just feel lost and maybe even a little isolated..

    Frapps & ScrapsFrapps & ScrapsVor 5 Monate
  • I’d love to see more!

    Adiya & Piper the service dogAdiya & Piper the service dogVor 5 Monate
  • Love your mom she's absolutely lovely

    annekagrifannekagrifVor 5 Monate
  • I would love more videos like this.

    Beth TurnerBeth TurnerVor 5 Monate
  • We want more!!!!!!

    Ruby GomezRuby GomezVor 5 Monate
  • omg I love your mom! she's so cute and seems so loving and awesome!!

    Cassie UnderkoflerCassie UnderkoflerVor 5 Monate
  • I love mama bee so much! She reminds me so much of my mama. You ladies are such warriors 💜

    Jude Vicious 333 Hannah LopezJude Vicious 333 Hannah LopezVor 5 Monate
  • This is so beautiful! I was diagnosed at a very young age with my condition and I wish my parents had supported my Blind journey as much as your parents did. My parents did the complete opposite and sheltered me and did not put me in any programs or let me go to any camps out of fear that something bad would happen to me. I understand why they would feel that way, but it definitely did its damage to me until I was about 20 years old. Mama B definitely did the right thing. I wouldn’t mind being isolated with someone as awesome as her! Both of you do a phenomenal job! Keep it up!

    Nicole KadaNicole KadaVor 5 Monate
  • Sorry for it, but I have to clear it up :) "niam" would be more the morphological transcription, as phonetical/phonological is concerned about the actual pronunciation. Just to throw that out there :)

    My Catholic FrameMy Catholic FrameVor 5 Monate
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